I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the concept of bandwidth, by which I mean how much total space we have to devote to our partners. It’s such a common thing in the Poly world for us to want to take on a new partner – without realizing that we don’t actually have space to give them in a way that’s fair to them or to our existing partners. It’s something I’ve been guilty of myself.

At any rate, I’m again in the category of ‘things I wish I’d written but didn’t,’ because I was linked today to this article that touches on a lot of these ideas. It was actually posted almost a year ago, so perhaps you’ve seen it, but it’s new to me so I thought I’d share. 🙂

‘8 Things to Consider in Polyamorous Dating Before Committing to Another Partner’