2 comments on ““Real” Life

  1. I am continually surprised at how difficult it is to shake the monoganormative foundations that I still intrinsically seem to believe even though I have largely rejected them intellectually.

    • I think I’m always going to find little assumptions ratting around my brain. I’ll just have to squish them like bugs when I find them. But preferably I’d like to find them on my own, and not when they spill out in the middle of an important conversation with my partner.

      I think this is why introspection and self-evaluation are so important for poly. I shudder to think of how many times I would have needed to process these assumptions out on people if I wasn’t doing the work myself.

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