3 comments on “My Poly Story: Triggers & the Normalizing Process

  1. Pingback: My Poly Story: What Polyamory Means to Me | Poly Chicago

  2. Can a new relationship cause an existing relationship to go into NRE mode? Is that a good thing or is that dangerous for the new relationship?

    • I think it absolutely can cause an existing relationship to reignite, so to speak. When my husband first started dating someone else, it caused me to really appreciate what other women saw in him–to view him from an outsiders perspective. After being with someone for so long, you can get desensitized to their attractions. When other people start seeing them and appreciating them for the first time, you get the opportunity to step back and see it all over again.

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