One comment on “My Poly Story: Inviting Love

  1. This post is pretty old by now, but I was hoping you might be able to answer a few questions I have for you?! My name is Miya. Ever since I graduated from high school I have wanted to join a poly couple and be in a triad. Currently I am in a living with a polypartner seeking a third! In this slight change of roles, I find I ask myself questions about how to properly feel safe in and enjoy my relationship with the partner I live with as well as open up to the new lover we seek. One thing I find challenging is understanding how to relate to the the polyperson who does not want to join the relationship, but wants to date my partner. So, I am wondering about your role as a “single poly” dating a “married man.” What makes you feel comfortable? How do you relate to his wife? How does he mediate? How do you address or come to terms with the fact that your feelings may deepen for him, but you may never join the relationship or it may cause him to end his marriage?
    If you have any insight I would love to hear!

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